Humility is about giving, being selfless, allowing others to connect with you and what your life is about. It's about accepting that not everything will go according to your own plan. That what is in store for your life is most of the time out of your control. That people come and people go (from the original composition Jazzmine). The only thing that you, the inner self can control is your decisions, the way you treat people, the way you carry yourself, the way you choose to react to life. These characteristics and actions are part of being or becoming humble. Humility is not a bad trait, it's not a weak trait, it's what we should strive for daily.
As a student, child, aunt, sister and lover, I have experienced pain. I've felt what it's like to be rejected, to be considered "not good enough", "not strong enough", "not smart enough". "Oh it will take too long for you to get this", "Oh you are behind", "You are too young", "You are too old", "You aren't feminine enough". I have been questioned, doubted, accused, misguided, naive, a sucker, the victim, the pain inducer, the "hurt you because you hurt me". I have learned through humility that nothing in my past matters.
